Understanding Our Needs

It is important as a therapist to understand how to address issues that people with same sex attractions bring into therapy. Concerns such as; understanding the normal common patterns in gay male and lesbian couples; searching for same sex relationships, building community support; "coming out" or remaining closeted at work,  the need for premarital counseling before legally wedding; bisexuality and more.

Therapy can be intense. Spending time educating your therapist on the cultural differences between your life and mainstream heterosexual life can be burdensome. I have conducted LGBTQI support groups for over 20 years and have presented at national and regional professional conferences on this issue. Although I have worked with a diverse range of clients, my most important and compelling work has been with people who are facing these issues. Certified also as an Imago Couples Counselor, I teach same sex couples to identify and communicate their core needs to each other so that they create the relationship they have always longed for.

Navigating LGBTQ+ Issues in Therapy

Understanding and addressing the unique challenges faced by individuals with same-sex attractions is crucial for therapists. From navigating relationships to coping with societal pressures, there are several key concerns that often arise:

  • Relationship Dynamics: Recognizing common patterns in gay male and lesbian couples can provide valuable insight into relationship dynamics.
  • Community Support: Building a supportive network within the LGBTQ+ community is essential for many individuals. Therapists can help clients explore and strengthen their connections.
  • Coming Out: The decision to come out or remain closeted, especially in professional settings, can be a source of stress. Therapists can offer guidance and support through this process.
  • Premarital Counseling: Same-sex couples preparing for legal weddings may benefit from premarital counseling to address potential challenges and strengthen their bond.
  • Bisexuality: Understanding and validating bisexuality is essential in creating a safe and inclusive therapeutic environment.

Therapy sessions can be intense, and it's important for therapists to be sensitive to the cultural differences between LGBTQ+ individuals and mainstream society. Drawing from over 20 years of experience facilitating LGBTQ+ support groups and presenting at professional conferences, I am deeply committed to addressing these issues.

As a certified Imago Couples Counselor, I specialize in helping same-sex couples identify and communicate their core needs, fostering healthier and more fulfilling relationships. My passion lies in supporting individuals as they navigate the complexities of their identities and relationships.



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Cindy Bink, LMHC

New York, NY Therapist

Cindy Bink, LMHC provides confidential psychotherapy and couples counseling for members of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and queer community specializing in areas that include, but are not limited to: Anxiety Symptoms, Depression Treatment, Anxiety Treatment, Depression Help, Anxiety Help, and Lesbian Problems.

Proudly Serving: New York City, NY and Northern New Jersey.